tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8667637878626443420.post2700052680754696114..comments2023-12-06T19:35:36.028+05:30Comments on Vijit's Opinion: First Impression and PerceptionVijithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01249638265656553201noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8667637878626443420.post-25574826589636419852008-06-16T09:17:00.000+05:302008-06-16T09:17:00.000+05:30Thanks Renila!Your opinion on this post really hel...Thanks Renila!<BR/><BR/>Your opinion on this post really helps because you interview many candidates and hence get to interact with different kinds of people. I appreciate the time you took for the same.Vijithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01249638265656553201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8667637878626443420.post-79494718893304922362008-06-15T21:59:00.000+05:302008-06-15T21:59:00.000+05:30Hmmm...true, my personal experience wid forming a ...Hmmm...true, my personal experience wid forming a first impression has been proved worng (be it on a personal level or a professional level). Its but obvious that ppl tends to form a good rapport at the first meeting wid anybody or if u talk abt the difference in the level of designation, they wud certainly try to prove their authority during their first interaction... I believe that we should spend a fair amount of time before actually forming an impression or perception about the person... <BR/>The major drawback according to me in the scenario when he have <BR/>perception abt someone is that we tend to form a mindset about the person and are not ready to overcome it, even though the person might be different, which ultimately will never help us in truly understanding the person.... <BR/>The best way to understand any relation.. be it a personal relationship or a professional relationship is to give time to that relation... <BR/>Even in HR front, when we meet up a candidate we make it a point to interview the candidate for almost 30-45 mins, during which we try to gauge the candidates and develop some perception about them which helps us in deciding, if we want the candidate in or no.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07340085066318005492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8667637878626443420.post-73141889994340930492008-06-15T15:47:00.000+05:302008-06-15T15:47:00.000+05:30Thanks Shalini!!!Your personal experience I think ...Thanks Shalini!!!<BR/><BR/>Your personal experience I think is one I could relate to. However, I could not quite digest the fact that a person is not able to understand his/her spouse after 20-25 years. In that case, I feel the fault lies with the concerned person too. He/she might not have put in enough efforts to understand. I feel a person has some basic character that kind of stays constant. However, I have not experienced this personally so I am not in a position to be very firm in saying that it is not possible that a person cannot be understood even after 20-25 years of staying together.<BR/><BR/>I am looking forward to your own blog that you plan to start soon. Thanks again for your valuable comments!!!Vijithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01249638265656553201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8667637878626443420.post-34117715916375445652008-06-15T12:46:00.000+05:302008-06-15T12:46:00.000+05:30hey vijit..gud one... i totally agree with this. i...hey vijit..gud one... i totally agree with this. i wud like to share my experience with u....the first person whom i met in college on the first day and made friends..n 2day 5 years down the line,i have no clue about that person and i seriously wonder how cud i b even friends with such a girl,whom the whole class hates now,as u said oversmart and selfish,totally different the way she behaved on the first day! <BR/><BR/>but then i have patients who say,they dont know their spouse even after 20 to 25 years of marriage! <BR/><BR/>what i mean to say,understanding a human is difficult. as they say ..peolpe change as time changes.. so forget about 1st impression even after living a whole life with a person... no one can judge anyone.<BR/>thats what i feel.. CHEERS!<BR/>tc.i me myself!https://www.blogger.com/profile/16306443500286678928noreply@blogger.com